Giving up.
Losing without learning.
Getting pushed around.
Pushing other people around.
Needing drugs or liquor to feel happy.
People who pretend to be your friend to get you to do things for them.
Feeling like you could have done better.
Not trying.
Watching something bad happen to someone and not trying to help them.
Smoking. After you smoke for a long time, it gets hard to breathe and you have to stop playing sports and hiking outdoors.
When someone steals from you.
Not understanding and not asking for help to understand.
Sarcasm
Not knowing what is going on around you.
Not letting other people talk.
Not knowing your children.
Not knowing your parents.
Wasting things that someone else could use.
Throwing trash on the ground.